INSPIRATIONAL TALK: GRIEF, PAIN AND CHOICES
According to Elizabeth Kubler Ross, a Swiss American Psychiatrist after a devastating incidence we go through five stages of grief. We go though DENIAL We try to make ourselves believe that this is not happening to us, we were careful, played our cards right. We deny, we try to close our eyes to the obvious but then nothing disappears and we get ANGER We fall into rage. Why is this happening to me. I don't deserve it. we put the blame on everyone and get mad at everything. but nothing seems to go away still then we BARGAIN If only we could give everything to make this go away. Go back one more day and try to fix things, sell anything just for a second chance. It's never that easy you realise then we fall into DEPRESSION We realise nothing can really be done about the past, then we wallow in self pity, take whatever substance to numb the pain trying to make yourself pay for everything that has happened. Realising how many things could actually be different. Then finally yo...