The Blog for the Ladies and the Gentlemen

We have to admit, relationship, love and romance isn't what it used to be. Let us go back to the 20th century, our parent's times, where intentions were as clear as crystal and values were as respected as the oldest man in a family meeting. Men always went out of their ways to make women feel...special. Before any outings, permissions had to be taken from the lady's parents and the woman had to be brought back home before the sun began to set. Kisses were suspended to the 5th date. And sex....the guy would almost be as old as Metuselah before that even happened. Chivalry was always practiced, women were mostly the ones to raise their voice in an argument, "yanga" was still in vogue. Basically, it was a woman's world then! Hmmm am I meant to be a 90s child or Angel Gabriel just forgot to plant me in the 80s and postponed it to the 90s, you know; just the way he has been postponing blowing the trumpet? Well, then we come to our beloved 21st century, th

To begin with, statistics has it that an average twenty one years old lady in naija have had at least one to two exes. Most reasonable ladies enter a relationship with at their mindsets set on atleast a 10% chance that this dude might become a husband at the end of it all, So what causes breakups in most relationships? Where is the bright blissful light at the end of the tunnel everyone never stops talking about? We all have one or two or more flaws we see in our guys that we don't like. Some are traditionalist, sexist, proud, demanding, crass, lazy, too exuberant, no goals. And the sad part is they think they are completely fine. *sigh* what can we do than hope and pray. Sorry if I sound one sided but my words are real, you know I'm being honest. Well I'm here today for my ladies. We all are not going to turn out to be nuns so we look at guys and see something but what do we look for? Pay attention guys, I'm gonna use this means to drop a few advice. The make ups an

Irrespective of the fact that some people do not respect the world of relationships and dating and believe it is a waste of energy, time and currency; I do. I mean, what is life without spice, spontaneity, romance, thrills, trips and the likes of it?  Some people question dating, they say; why should I waste my money on lunch  if I can use that to get a quickie at the corner of every club?  My brother, you cant continue living like this cause nothing good comes from the corner of every club. Well, this little write up is for our gentlemanly men. I'm here to help you out, make it easy a little for you. I'm not promising you anything superb at the end but to save you from getting red wine all over your outfit or having a nagging frowning lady opposite you, these are fifteen first date mistakes you don't wanna make; 1. Do not bring your friend without her consent. You dont know how rude it looks when she walks up to the car and realises she has to move to the back se