YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES

I want you all to say this, it was our pledge in secondary school and it has helped me through life a whole lot;

‘I am a unique and irreplaceable individual, my vocation in life is also personal, therefore; I must not follow the group always’

We are unique, we are irreplaceable but most of all, we are individuals. There’s just one of us, just one and no one has control over your life except God and yourself. Have you ever notice that nothing changes in your life until you make up your mind that you want it to? Take for instance, a junkie. Till he decides to make up his mind to change and take measures to changing he won’t, no matter how much he tells people hey! I’m a changed man or pray, He has to decide.

We are all as different as our fingerprints and no two people have exactly the same view of life, we all view life from a different perspective. So fuck what you hear on the street; people judging your opinion, your relationship, your achievements and setbacks, your business, your attitude. Do what you have to do to be a better you because no one can improve you until you decide you want to improve. Work hard, and forget what the street has to say about you or that time you messed up, people will always have something to say, people will always try to pull you up when you are rising, people will always run their mouth. So be nonchalant about what he says or what she says. Except if they’ve earned a position in your life, their opinion doesn’t matter; they’re just part of the street.

Don’t ever leave on ‘eye service’ an attitude of pleasing others to displease you. Being fake doesn’t pay as much as being real. Don’t ever take these four things to heart

Insult on your potential

Insult on your handicaps

Insult on your past mistakes

Insult on your wrong choices

People will always have something to say, they will call you useless, they will insult your bad leg or loss of sight, they won’t smash your feelings without sentiments and they will judge you based on your past mistakes. But no one knows you like you do so remember, it’s your life and it’s your rule.

Be happy, work hard, pray hard, play hard, struggle for results, give prosperity and success your all, don’t sleep until its done, make the right choices to be as good as you can reach. I speak here for the positive minded who mean good for themselves but are trying to be pulled down by the negative opinions of others not for the negative minded who mean destruction for themselves. Don’t ever bend in a path you cannot handle because no one will fix you when you break, it’s hard to fix a broken human. So do what suits you, do what will bring happiness to you, do what will make your life worthwhile